This weekend I made my final trek over to B.o.B's for a long(ish) run and my B.R.A. Goodbye Party. It was a bittersweet visit; on the one hand I couldn't wait to see and catch up with everyone, but on the other I was going to be saying goodbye to my adoptive running family...
Friday night B.o.B & I had a gloriously yummy dinner at Coach T & V's house before hitting the hay for a long(ish) run in the a.m. I laid awake most of the night, as I have most nights lately, reading and thinking about all the other nights I've stayed in this room; long run eve's, race eve's, so many memories of my room at B.o.B's with it's futon, Lloyd hair, broken vacuum cleaners, large empty tv box I use to keep the door open in the mornings, the table lamp I always try to turn on that doesn't work and her bike with the shark horn. *sigh* I'm going to miss that room.
Saturday morning it was up and at 'em at the late hour of 6 a.m., which any regular here knows is WAY late for us to start a run, to meet up with the rest of the B.R.A. runners for a long(ish) run. Everyone had a 10 M on deck but wary of the Lankle and my lack of mileage lately I decided I would run to the 3.5 M mark and then turn back. The "Funky Foursome" as P-Funk has dubbed us, hit the ground running and got caught up on all our adventures since we've last met. At the watering hole I parted ways with Hollster and P-Funk and at the last second B.o.B decided to join me for the shorter run because she was having her own issues. We ran along just chatting until things got a bit discombobulated with 1.5 M to go. How fitting our last run together would end up this way, we just laughed it up on into the finish and then waited on the rest of the peeps.
Like every long run, we headed over to Panera to eat and chat away the morning. Listening to Cap't Nuts & Carribbean Steve bicker over Ragnar while P-Funk played H.R. & Hollster just smiled made me realize just how much I loved this merry band of misfits that I have come to call family. After breakfast and because B.o.B had to work, Hollster, P-Funk & I decided to get together and pass the time on the river and head out to the Bay. I was so happy to spend some quality time with the girls, if only B.o.B hadn't of had to work it would've been d@mn near perfect!
After the boat it was time to get ready for the B.R.A. party! Most of the regulars made an appearance and even a new runner that I had met for the first time that morning came. We all stuffed our faces, cracked jokes, gave Shorty-Shorts a hard time, retold race recaps... it was like a post long run breakfast only later and less smelly.
At one point in the night Coach EK called us all to order and gave a moving speech about how I came to the B.R.A. and became an honorary member before presenting me with an official B.R.A. running shirt signed by everyone framed in a shadow box with the words "Family" painted across the front. I def got a little choked up.

All to soon the night came to an end and it was time to say Goodbye. Two short years ago, while working together B.o.B and I decided to go for a run after work. We did this a few times and then she moved. We lost touch. Then, around the beginning of 2009 we reconnected over running once again and that is when running brought us closer together despite the distance between us. Shortly thereafter we started the adventures of B.o.B & the Redhead, treking over to each other's houses for long runs and in due time she introduced me to the ecclectic members of the B.R.A. Since then I've spent significant hours and miles with them, sharing my secrets, aches and pains, victories and defeats and everything else in between. Coach EK has helped me evolve into the runner I am today with his coaching and training plans. Coach T & V have shown me how to embrace life and love. Carribbean Steve has reminded me that if you keep it simple you'll always be happy. Navy Steve & Strawberry-E taught me how to dig deep when I don't think I have anything left. Cap't Nuts taught me... wait what did he teach me? LOL! Shorty-Shorts taught me to run fast means to wear shorty-shorts and plenty of axe. Speedy Jess taught me to always find my inner cheerleader. P-Funk taught me the importance of H.R. and making the most out of every situation. Hollster taught me how to pace myself but also know when to take a chance. Collectively you've become such an important part of my running career and together we've had some great memories including, my first 22 miler, Ragnar Leg 1, Leg 2 & Leg 3, 22 Miles of Confidence building before Gasparilla, and especially the Gasparilla Marathon. Thank you B.R.A. for accepting me into your lives, runs and hearts. I love you guys!

"Thank you for being a friend. Traveled down the road and back again. Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confident..." - Golden Girls til the end B.o.B & Red
T-Minus 4 days til D-Day...
35 comments:
First!
It sounds like you are making the right choice in moving back to Michigan but it also sounds like it hasn't been easy at all these last couple of weeks. But while you'll be parting ways soon, I know you've been and will continue to be an inspiration to all of your Florida friends.
I got a little choked up just reading this. I can't imagine how you made it through without losing it. Enjoy every moment you have left and keeping thinking about the moments that are waiting for you!
Aww what a great post! It's amazing how many friends you make in the running world and how they will always be around regardless of distance between you. I can't wait to see what your future holds!!
<3 you...hope your having an okay week :)
I am sure you are excited for this next chapter to start but like any good story it is hard to move past one story line to start the next one.
I don't know all your wonderful friends and I got teary-eyed just reading this. I hope your excitment offsets your sadness in going!
You look beautiful and happy. I hope your new home finds you the same way.
It's great that you had found a family in Florida and that you learned so much from them. Growing up and moving away is hard to do, whether at 18 or 28.
Awww... goodbyes are ALWAYS hard, but now you have a great group of friends to visit in the future...and they'll ALWAYS be there for you (and just a phone call away!)
So glad you had a wonderful last weekend in FL. GOOD LUCK this week and with the move!
Awww, what a fun-looking group. I'm sure they'll be very missed.
Sorry I haven't commented in a while. But, what an exciting time in your life. Seems like you have made some awesome friends in FL and now you have plenty of options on where to stay when visiting! Best of luck always.
*Sniff sniff*
I'll miss you lady but just think we can run around Chicago soon enough....hell, I'd even trek up to Michigan to see you!
I got a little teary...moving is hard. Leaving special people behind is so hard. Isn't it amazing how running can change our lives, and the people we run with are so special. I open my mouth and blab things I would never blab otherwise to a running buddy during a long run (just ask Tall Mom, she gets ears full when we run). Running forms a bond and I bet you will find a new bond up North...but it will never replace your B.R.A. It will only be an addition, to fill you even more with awesomeness. Best of luck!!
Aw, that was such a nice post. I know the BRA group will miss you! best of luck on the next phase...
10 Meters? That's it? How is that a long (ish) run?
Hey, I'm just keeping it real.
Will your blog get a new Michigan like design once you move?
*hug* Goodbyes are so hard, especially when you've got to say them to people like that!
I understand how hard goodbyes are. I hope you have a safe trip to MI.
Not Goodbye. Auf Wiedersehen. "Until we meet again".
Until then, Be happy, Be safe, and Be prepared for a new and interesting training plan for.....
awww i am sure it is so hard to leave all of them! It is so nice that you have made great friends like that and hopefully you will find other running buddies when you move!
You're going to do so amazing at your new place... I'm so proud of you for being strong enough to go through this all. I'm sure reading this entry is going to be very special for all those people that you mentioned.
Aww well that was a very nice send off. Hopefully you girls can reconnect often! Good luck with all the packing/moving stuff!
Awwww! I didn't know that's how you and B.O.B met/started running together. Very cool!
Goodbyes are NEVER easy! It sounds like the B.R.A gave you the amazing send-off that you totally deserve though!!
awww...so sad :( But knowing where you're going (and who you'll be with) makes me happy for you. I hope you make new friends and share all of your new running adventures with us here! I know you'll be back to FL soon enough. :)
good friends are beautiful jewels we should always treasure...I'm glad U two reconnected...hold onto that...love one another...
You had a toned and well tanned crew there.
Never forgotten.
Gosh, I'm not even living there and even I'm said that you're moving away! Sniff, sniff...
why the hell am *I* crying right now??? geesh!!
very nice post. you got your point across to this awesome group of people that mean so much to you.
Aww, this post has me all teary. Definitely bittersweet, isn't it? They sure know how to send you off in style.
Just a few more days... wow!
I just shed a tear right now - I'm sad and excited for you all at once!
Be safe! And I'm thinking of you this week as you make your journey!
you really do have an amazing set of friends and you'll always have them here when you visit, which is great because you'll want to do that in january. :)
I am soo sooooo excited to have you here but i got teary eyed reading your post! I hope you have safe travels up here! The heat is waiting for you!
You're truely blessed to have so many great friendships and memories!
jealous.
you and beth are hotties! that's why you want me to be your friend, so i can be the fat ugly one :-p haha.
hope your follow-up phone interview goes well!
Ah Jen, you're a gem and we're all fortunate to have been able to be friends and run together. You have been such a cheerleader and inspiration when those miles got so long and tough. Thanks so much for your encouragement. Hope to see you in Boston baby!!
"You never really leave a place you love. Part of it you take with you, leaving a part of you behind."
Hollster
Wow, What an amazing running family you have!
Great Post.
Woah lots can happen when you take a bloggy break! Sorry for missing out on all the excitement.
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